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Huh? Oh-- You've reached Bolin!
Yeah, I'm a pretty busy guy but leave me a message and I'll beep you back

Date: 2022-01-13 04:01 pm (UTC)
royalfling: (scared | soft | look | concern)
From: [personal profile] royalfling
Bo... you know that just because you're together on-stage doesn't mean you are off-stage, right? Did Ryan say something about that?

[ Because if he did, Wu is going to have Words with him. ]

Date: 2022-01-13 07:31 pm (UTC)
royalfling: (concern | look | oh no | earnest)
From: [personal profile] royalfling
[ Okay, Wu. You can do this. This is what you've been training for. Sort of. Maybe. But he's had a lot of conversations with a lot of people over the last year about issues like this, about misconceptions and issues communicating, but this feels like a lot more. Like there's so much more here than Bolin's saying. ]

No, I don't think you are.

Ryan, he's just like that, you know? He flirts with me, too, but it doesn't mean anything. It's just how he is, it's how he relates to people. And I'm not saying he doesn't like you! I know he does, but probably as friends. Flirting isn't a big deal to him.

But, you know you aren't Nuktuk, right? You play Nuktuk, just like you're playing Columbia. And Eddie loves Columbia, but it doesn't mean that Ryan loves you, okay? That sounds kind of mean, but you know what I mean, right?

[ Does he?? Wu is really trying here, speaking as gently as he can to try and explain this. ]

It sounds like Ginger was really confusing about stuff like that. I don't think you should take her as an example for how you should be with a girlfriend or boyfriend. That sounds like, it sounds like she was taking advantage of you. Which is terrible, and I'm sorry she did that!

Date: 2022-01-13 11:13 pm (UTC)
royalfling: (talk | concern | tired)
From: [personal profile] royalfling
[ Good, good. At least that part's cleared up. Wu watches him think with a certain type of empathy because, yeah. He also thought the world worked differently than it does, once. ]

Well, you said that after you saved Raiko, she was all over you. That sounds like she was taking advantage of you liking her to mooch off your fame.

But, yeah, about Ryan. He has a boyfriend back home. I, well. I don't know how he feels about dating other people. But it depends, on if you really like him or thought you... had to.

[ Which makes Wu pretty sad to even say ]

Date: 2022-01-13 11:36 pm (UTC)
royalfling: (concern | look | oh no | earnest)
From: [personal profile] royalfling
If that's what you want, but-- hey, Bo?

[ He chews on his lip, thinking about how to say this next part ]

You know you don't have to date anybody you don't want to, right? You don't have to date them or kiss them or anything if you don't want to. You get to choose who you do that with, or if you even want to do that.

Date: 2022-01-14 12:14 am (UTC)
royalfling: (explain | wave | talk)
From: [personal profile] royalfling
That's not what I'm saying!

[ Wu should drop it. He should drop it because clearly Bolin wants to drop it, but that's how he gets into problems. He lets things slide to be liked. But he doesn't want to be that anymore. So, even if it's uncomfortable, he's going to try: ]

I'm not saying you're stupid. You just, maybe you have some messed up thoughts about relationships! And that's not stupid. But, I think that thinking differently about them might be good for you.

Date: 2022-01-14 01:17 am (UTC)
royalfling: (idea | think | neutral)
From: [personal profile] royalfling
[ He actually listened? Wu honestly wasn't expecting that. If this was Mako, he probably would have grumbled and stormed out, but Bolin isn't his brother ]

Buddy, I don't think any different about you. I promise. Not knowing something is the first step to knowing something!

It's a really good question. I... don't really know? Which isn't helpful. But I do know that you're a great guy who deserves a great guy or gal, one who really likes you for you. But I guess... I guess it's good to ask? Ask what they mean by it if they're not clear. Like with Lance, you could ask what that kiss meant. Or with Ryan, you could ask what being stage boyfriends means, although, I can't promise that Ryan would answer that in a way that makes it any less confusing--

But you can also ask me! Or Mako. I wish I'd known what you thought about stage boyfriends, I honestly thought you were joking around, too! I'm sorry about that, buddy, I should have been looking out for you better.

Date: 2022-01-14 01:40 am (UTC)
royalfling: (annoyed | pout | angry)
From: [personal profile] royalfling
That is what I mean. Bolin--

[ Boy is he frustrating. Wu turns to him with a flat expression ]

Yes in a friend way! You look out for me. I know you do. So let me do that, too. And Ryan is my friend, and he's kind of a jerk, so I should have seen this all-- this.

Date: 2022-01-14 02:12 am (UTC)
royalfling: (smile | concern | soft)
From: [personal profile] royalfling
[ Wu lets out a breath. Okay. He wants to keep pushing but maybe that was enough for one day. He can't just make Bolin change all at once. He doesn't want him to change, exactly. He wants him to, yeah ]

That's just it! Knowing your boundaries. And I know, I know it's not my fault, but it still doesn't mean I can't look out for you!

[ And he's going to tell Ryan he was being an asshole, for good measure ]

I don't want you to get hurt if I can help it.

Date: 2022-01-14 02:32 pm (UTC)
royalfling: (hug | sweet | you're the best)
From: [personal profile] royalfling
[ Wu watches him as he says all of that, and he nods. He gets it, that Bolin probably can't talk more about this right now, but it still aches. It aches because he cares about Bolin and wants him to be happy. They're basically family, and Wu has never had a family he cared about like this. It's novel and exciting and hard, and he surged forward to tackle Bolin in another hug, squeezing him tight. The calming effect of his magic hugs washes over them both ]

You'll figure it out! I know you will.

Date: 2022-01-15 12:42 am (UTC)
royalfling: (soft | smile | sweet)
From: [personal profile] royalfling
Yeah, let's watch something.

[ Easier than talking and, really, he's here to see Bolin's place. A normal thing to do, a thing he can do without trying to pry into Bolin's insecurities.

He lets Bolin go with another little smile, and settles in to watch something on their Omnis.
]

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